心理學(xué)上說(shuō):人們大多數(shù)只對(duì)有安全度的人發(fā)脾氣。因?yàn)樵谀莻€(gè)安全度之內(nèi)。你潛意識(shí)知道對(duì)方不會(huì)離開(kāi)你。胡鬧是一種依賴。
Psychologicallyspeaking,mostpeopleonlygetangrywithpeoplewhoaresafe.Becauseit'swithinthatlevelofsecurity.Yousubconsciouslyknowthattheotherpersonwon'tleaveyou.Nonsenseisakindofdependence.
真正的愛(ài),應(yīng)該超越生命的長(zhǎng)度、心靈的寬度、靈魂的深度
Trueloveshouldgobeyondthelengthoflife,thewidthofsoulandthedepthofsoul
每一個(gè)體驗(yàn)都彌足珍貴,得到與失去、成功與失敗、健康與疾病、富裕與貧窮、自由與囚禁、奮斗與享樂(lè)……兩極你都體驗(yàn)到,這才是人生的圓滿。
Everyexperienceisprecious,gainandloss,successandfailure,healthanddisease,wealthandpoverty,freedomandimprisonment,struggleandenjoymentYoubothexperiencethatthisistheperfectionoflife.
老天給了每個(gè)人一條命,一顆心,把命照看好,把心安頓好,人生即是圓滿。把命照看好,就是要保護(hù)生命的單純,珍惜平凡生活。把心安頓好,就是要積累靈魂的財(cái)富,注重內(nèi)在生活。換句話說(shuō),人的使命就是盡好老天賦予的兩個(gè)主要職責(zé),好好做自然之子,好好做萬(wàn)物之靈
Godgaveeveryonealife,aheart,takegoodcareoflife,settletheheart,lifeiscomplete.Takegoodcareoflifeistoprotectthesimplicityoflifeandcherishordinarylife.Tosettledownistoaccumulatewealthofsoulandpayattentiontoinnerlife.Inotherwords,themissionofhumanbeingsistofulfillthetwomainresponsibilitiesgivenbyheaven,tobethesonofnatureandthespiritofallthings
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