說(shuō)了那么多,無(wú)非是想得到別人的肯定和羨慕,但太過(guò)自大,反而會(huì)招來(lái)別人的厭惡。
Said so much, just want to get the affirmation and envy of others, but too arrogant, it will attract the disgust of others.
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只是遇見(jiàn),沒(méi)有多言,這才開(kāi)始保持距離。
Just meet, no more words, this began to keep a distance.
有句話說(shuō):如何避免別人的感情,是每個(gè)成年人都應(yīng)該遵守的基本道德。
There is a saying: how to avoid other people's feelings is the basic morality that every adult should abide by.
余生,不要消極對(duì)待自己,也不要消極對(duì)待別人。你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)生活也可以很美好。
For the rest of your life, don't be negative to yourself or others. You will find that life can also be beautiful.
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比較的話,嘲笑的話,抱怨的話,多說(shuō)少說(shuō),少說(shuō)不。
Compare, laugh, complain, say more, say less, and say less.
在關(guān)系結(jié)束時(shí),男人會(huì)用不同的方式稱呼你。
At the end of a relationship, men will call you in different ways.
會(huì)不會(huì)發(fā)脾氣,讓他憐憫你
Will you lose your temper and let him pity you
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當(dāng)他心情不好,心情不好時(shí),你的奉承是不必要的打擾,他會(huì)因此更恨你。
When he is in a bad mood, your flattery is unnecessary interference, and he will hate you more.
愛(ài)情還是友情,走到后來(lái)你就會(huì)明白,一份真的難得。
Love or friendship, you will understand later, a really rare.
其次,你擔(dān)心你的善變會(huì)讓別人懷疑你的承諾水平。
Second, you worry that your fickleness will make others doubt your level of commitment.
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這種迎合太膚淺了;這樣的追求,太廉價(jià)了。
This pandering is too superficial; Such pursuit is too cheap.
有了真愛(ài),你會(huì)感受到全心全意的關(guān)心和呵護(hù)。這才是你想追隨的人。
With true love, you will feel wholehearted care and care. This is the person you want to follow.
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