星辰無(wú)論是好是壞,都會(huì)成為不可磨滅的記憶,讓我們更加懂得如何愛(ài)自己,愛(ài)別人。
星辰Whether it is good or bad, it will become an indelible memory, which will make us know how to love ourselves and others better.
星辰要知道,在過(guò)去的歲月里,他可能真的對(duì)你很重要??墒牵谒麤](méi)有出現(xiàn)的時(shí)候,那些年,就算你一個(gè)人,其實(shí)也過(guò)得很好,也沒(méi)什么不好。
星辰You know, in the past years, he may be really important to you. However, in those years when he didn't show up, even if you were alone, you actually had a good life, and there was nothing wrong with it.
星辰其實(shí)男人對(duì)你的愛(ài),最終的表達(dá)可以是兩個(gè)字——舍得。
星辰In fact, the ultimate expression of a man's love for you can be two words-willing to give up.
星辰你只會(huì)覺(jué)得從現(xiàn)在開(kāi)始,他是他,你是你,他過(guò)得怎么樣,那是他的事,你過(guò)得好不好,那不需要他看,更不用指指點(diǎn)點(diǎn)。
星辰You will only think that from now on, he is him, you are you, how he is doing, that's his business, you don't need him to look at it, let alone point fingers.
星辰但是,不管是不是恐懼,因?yàn)槟銢](méi)那么喜歡,所以對(duì)未來(lái)沒(méi)有信心或者明明喜歡,卻還是對(duì)未來(lái)感到擔(dān)憂。既然無(wú)法擺脫這種心態(tài),不妨先接受自己。
星辰However, whether you are afraid or not, because you don't like it that much, you have no confidence in the future or obviously like it, but you are still worried about the future. Since you can't get rid of this mentality, you might as well accept yourself first.
星辰但是過(guò)了五十歲,你就能明顯感覺(jué)到身體在一天天老去。
星辰But after the age of , you can obviously feel that your body is getting older day by day.
星辰愛(ài)你的人,哪怕是被動(dòng),矜持,沒(méi)有安全感,也無(wú)法忍受根本不找你,不跟你見(jiàn)面。
星辰People who love you, even if they are passive, reserved and insecure, can't stand not looking for you or meeting you at all.